Today is my birthday. This is not a great date to have a birthday. Most of the time, people forget it. And it seem every year something disappointing or hurtful happens. But I’m going to focus on the positive.
Yesterday I had my feelings hurt by two people I love. I walked through Hastings almost in tears. Then when I went to get my Chai Tea Latte, the line was so long I just walked away. One disappointment after another.
BUT something good did happen. I had lunch with a dear old friend. We’ve been friends since 5th grade…if you know my age, you know that’s been quite a few years. We even roomed together in college – for the short period of time I was there. Seeing her was the highlight of my day. I need to keep in touch with her more often. Friends are a treasure into which I should invest more of myself and my time.
Unfortunately, when I get busy, one of the first things to suffer is my social life. I find myself almost irritated by social obligations, racking my brain for excuses to avoid the get-together. And inevitably I actually make myself physically ill. So I end up with the excuse I wanted.
How sad that connection is the first thing to go in stressful times! How ironic it is that the connection is the very thing that takes away that stress!
In one of my previous blogs, I shared about the oneness I felt one afternoon while running in the rain. Separateness is unnatural – oneness is what my soul desires. I need connection; I need friends.
Once again I can watch the fur babies and learn these life lessons. They love one another – they weren’t born as family but there’s definitely love. And yes, we all need time alone but sometimes sharing a rawhide and a few laughs makes it all better.